I’m always seeing people’s “favorite things” on other blogs and in the spirit of appreciating what you have, I thought, “I’m going to make my own list.” So here it is:
1. Men in gingham shirts
Not sure what I find so attractive about this. I guess part of it is that my husband wore the most beautiful, feather-light gingham shirt on our wedding day. But I loved them even before that. Maybe it’s the juxtaposition of that crisp, summery pattern against tan, muscular forearms. Or maybe it’s just one of those inexplicable things that only I appreciate in my own weird way…who knows? I was actually starting to think I’m alone in this obsession because I spent a half hour online trying to find a suitably sexy gingham-shirted guy to no avail, but then went out for a run and almost immediately spotted just such a fellow. So they’re out there…keep your peepers open!

Yes, I know this is NOT gingham. But for the love of Christ, just pretend it is. The internet has failed me on this one.
2. Public Libraries
When we lived in Buenos Aires — besides my family and friends — the thing I missed most was the library. There were only a couple English-language bookstores and while Kindle helped, there’s just something about walking into a library: that feeling of hopefulness while browsing the stacks of books, looking for just the right combination of title and cover to suck you into another world for a little while. I grew up going to the library every Saturday with my mom, brother and sisters. Mom always said the drive home was the quietest time she ever spent in our car. I can just imagine all four of us lined up in the back seat; our noses stuck in our latest find and piles of books at everyone’s feet.
Photo credit: Vermont Historical Society’s Flickr feed
3. Red Licorice
Yes, I know that’s an oxymoron; technically, red licorice is, in fact, not licorice. But I don’t know what else to call it. And it’s not that Twizzler crap; it’s Whole Foods’ version (slightly healthier/ higher-end crap). Laying in wait by the register lines, it gets me every time. Chewy and fruity, not too sweet. Just stick-to-your-teeth good.
4. Knowing I’m going to the beach in less than a week
No explanation needed.
5. Stripes!

I really can’t get enough. On towels, clothes, rugs…whatever; wherever. Sometimes I inadvertently dress both myself and the G-man in stripes. And even though I’m really not the matchy-matchy with my kid type, I kind of like it when it happens. Oh, and the movie’s pretty good too.
6. Living by the water
Being able to walk out our door and find ourselves right on the Hudson River is truly glorious in these hot summer months. The breeze coming off the river, the gorgeous grassy parks and playgrounds with some of the best sprinklers you can imagine, the promise of adventure in the yachts lined up in the cove, the ferries zipping across to points in Jersey, the Statue of Liberty shining her light 24/7 — all of that excitement and movement somehow adds up to a little slice of peace and quiet, which isn’t always easy to find in this crazy city.
7. Running
Especially as it relates to #6. Running along the water and admiring the glorious skyline of NYC is great (even with a headwind that’s somehow there when I’m going both up- and downtown). And then there is the fact that running allows me to rationalize visits to this den of sin. Plus, I always sleep so well after a good run. It makes you tired in the best way.
8. Finley Quaye
Specifically Maverick A Strike and especially this song. Brings me back to lazy summer Sunday mornings in Buenos Aires.
9. Cooking for and eating with the people I love
I suppose this one should go without saying, but I very firmly believe that food is love, and a home-cooked meal with your friends and family is one of life’s greatest pleasures.
10. My boy
The other day he pointed to a model on the cover of a magazine and asked sweetly, “Is this you, Mama?” God I love that kid. And may he always make the women he loves feel that good — never mind that the model was Chinese.












